Hi, I’m Heather…

(she/her)

So much of what we struggle with as adults has roots that run further back than the present moment—in how we were parented, what happened to us, and the patterns we absorbed long before we had words for them. Maybe you're raising a child and feeling things you didn't expect to feel. Maybe you're an adoptive or foster parent navigating a bond that's more complicated than anyone prepared you for. Maybe you carry trauma that still shapes how you react, or you keep landing in the same painful spot in your relationships and can't work out why. I work with adults who are ready to make sense of it.

After more than eleven years as a therapist, I've come to believe that everyone is doing the best they can in any given moment—and that stress, large or small, shapes what that "best" looks like. When we can meet ourselves with that kind of understanding and compassion, it becomes possible to integrate hard experiences and actually heal. I'm deeply relational in how I work; more than anything, I want you to feel genuinely seen and heard.

As we explore your emotions and relational patterns, I bring in what current neuroscience tells us about why we react and get stuck the way we do—which often takes the shame out of responses that used to feel like personal failings. For trauma, I draw on EMDR, which helps the nervous system reprocess painful experiences so they loosen their grip on the present. And because I spent years working closely with young children and families, I understand attachment and development from the inside out—a lens that makes a real difference in adult work around parenting, adoption, and the early wounds that still echo. Together, we'll work through what's unresolved, process it, and begin moving forward.

 

Training and Specialties

Specialties

  • Depression

  • Anxiety

  • Self Esteem

  • Trauma & PTSD

  • Relationship Issues

  • Stress

  • Life Transitions

  • Parenting and Parent Coaching

  • Adoption & Foster Care

  • Behavior Issues

  • Emotional Disturbance

Treatment Approaches

  • Attachment-based

  • EMDR

  • Psychodynamic

  • Internal Family Systems

  • Trauma Focused

  • Integrative

  • Narrative Therapy

  • Parent Coaching

  • Family Systems



License & Education

  • Master of Social Work
    University of St. Thomas and St. Catherine University

  • Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker
    License Number #21867

  • Certificate–Trauma Informed Child Parent Psychotherapy
    MN Dept. of Human Services

  • Parent Child Interaction Training
    University of Oklahoma Health Science Center

  • Conscious Discipline 1
    Conscious Discipline Summer Institute

  • EMDRIA Trained EMDR Practitioner
    Level 1 and 2 Certification

Get started with Heather today.